Introduction
I recently posed two questions to
45 active members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. These two questions came to me one Saturday
morning as I was mowing our lawn. I was
paying more attention to my thoughts at the time than I was to the chore of
lawn-mowing. I was pondering why it was
that many of our active young people in the Church were choosing to not serve
missions or remain active in the Church, and in some cases simply drifted
away. Watching them drift was very much
like a video clip I had seen of a salesman extoling the virtues of “living in a
van down by the river.” Unfortunately, I
know some young men who are doing exactly that.
So, I posed two questions to
these 45 active members of the Church.
Their answers were as varied as the 38 people who responded (84.4%
response rate). While some provided what
amounted to bullet lists, others wrote lengthy paragraphs for their
responses. Some of those responses were
difficult to read as they recounted their experiences earlier in life. Tears easily flowed as I felt the pain that
some had experienced in their faith development.
These were the two questions I asked.
1. Other
than parental influences, what has helped to strengthen your testimony of the
gospel?
2. Again,
other than parental influences, what has helped encourage you to be obedient to
the commandments.
Survey Results
As the answers came in, the more
I thought about the two questions the more I concluded that they were
essentially the same question.
Therefore, rather than separate the answers by question, I lumped all
the responses together. And while there
were responses that were unique, for the most part responses fell into seven
major categories of answers. Unique answers
included such things as the effects of the hymns of the Church on the
individual, temple attendance, the feeling of safety, a patriarchal blessing,
feeling the Spirit while listening to a speaker, the Young Women’s Theme, the unspoken
expectations of others, and so forth.
The seven most common categories
of answers included (1) Scripture Study, Personal Prayer, and Church Attendance;
(2) Special Events such as Camps, Treks, EFY, and Youth Conferences; (3) Strong
Friendships; (4) Blessings of Obedience and Passing Through Trials; (5) Strong
Leaders and Teachers; (6) Service, Including Missionary Service; and (7)
Goal-setting.
Respondents came from four
primary sources: young adults I’ve known from New Mexico, returned missionaries
who served in New York and New Mexico (largely from Utah), young adults from
New York, and other adults from New York and New Mexico. Included in the mix were a couple of
grandchildren, former seminary students of mine, two university professors, a
former stake president/mission president/Area Seventy, college roommate, and a current
Texan. The table below shows the
responses by category.
Table 1.
Responses by Category
Scripture Study, Prayer,
Church Attendance
|
Camps, Youth
Conferences
EFY
|
Strong Friend-
ships
|
Trials and
Blessings of Obedience
|
Strong Leaders and
Teachers
|
Service, Including
Missionary Service
|
Goal-setting
|
Other
|
26%
|
6%
|
4%
|
30%
|
9%
|
4%
|
3%
|
18%
|
N=141
Questions
It should be no surprise that scripture study, prayer, and
church attendance are such great contributors to strengthened testimony and
obedience to the commandments. And after
some thought, experiencing the blessings that come through obedience to the commandments
and passing through trials also seem like reasonable explanations for
strengthened testimonies, though I was initially surprised by those responses. But both beg certain questions. For example, why did faithful members study
the scriptures, pray, and attend church?
Were they faithful to begin with and therefore engage in those
activities or did engaging in those activities lead them to be faithful? If engaging in those activities lead members
to activity, why has it not done so for those who have strayed? The same could be asked for those who have
passed through trials and have been blessed because of those trials. Why do some stray when they successfully pass
through trials while others are strengthened?
Several other questions could or perhaps should be
asked. For example, is it the trek
experience, EFY, Youth Conference, or Girls Camp in and of themselves that
build testimonies or is it a friendship that is made or a five-minute interaction
with a leader that led a desire to strengthen a testimony? Were there not strong friendships that were
developed in youth among those who are no longer active in the Church? What constitutes a strong teacher or leader
among the youth and how do they contribute to strengthening faith among
them? Is rendering service that
important to the future activity of youth?
And then there is the other 18-percent.
What of the recitation of the Young Women’s Theme on a weekly basis or
singing the hymns of the Church or unspoken expectations? For several respondents, these seemingly
outside-the-norm responses were significant in their testimony development. Why aren’t they for everyone? I could go on with the questions.
Conclusion
I should note that the responses were not exactly what I
expected. Yes, I anticipated prayer,
scripture study, and church attendance, but I also expected more responses that
reflected activities that youth participate in such as youth conferences and
treks. Could there be a cumulative effect
of camps, conferences, and treks that lead to church activity? I also anticipated more responses that
pointed to the influence of friends, teachers and leaders. What caught me totally off guard was the
overwhelming number who pointed to the blessings of obedience and overcoming
trials. In the end, I found that I had
more questions than answers when I reviewed the responses from those who
participated in this little survey.
Finally, nothing should be construed from this little survey
to suggest that it was a scientifically conducted research. Still, the responses should cause one to stop
and ponder upon why each of these seven categories as well as all the unique experiences
contributed so much to the building of testimonies and a desire to be obedient
to the commandments.
Thank you to those who responded to my questions.
One indicator that you've discovered some truth is ending with more questions than you had to begin with. Those with little understanding have no questions. Experts are those who realize just how much they don't know while developing skills in a tiny slice of the whole.
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